For LilJ/Charlie...

[Satscout]

I'm starting a new thread with this question because the other one is getting several pages too deep to follow.

I think what you said may have come across as an "attack" simply because we don't know your story, your background, the context in which you saw what she shared. To be honest, I had some of the same gut feelings Jane expressed, but did NOT post what she did simply because I didn't know for sure where you were coming from.

If you feel comfortable doing so, I would invite you to share your story, or as much of it as you think relevant, so we can see the context in which you came to the conclusions you did. *extends olive branch*