Please be careful

[Janice]

personally, I don't believe a word of it.

[dwilliams]

...? careful, don't believe what...?

I'm confused... :)

[standing still]

Janice, thank you for your response.

Do you truly mean you don't believe ANY word of it, i.e., the general story, or do you sense a lack of genuine regret or remorse?

Maybe you can awaken me to another blind spot. I'm recovering like anyone else, and certainly stand open to any rebuke or correction anyone thinks I need. I also need to be careful not to let what MAY BE a surface judgment cause me to shame myself in what I believe was an honest attempt to openly admit where I have failed.

I think as others have posted that it is certainly best at this time to move on past this, and try our best to establish a fresh start. I have erred, I realze that, and although my time is limited until Friday, unless something changes, I think it best that we follow the good advice of others not to stoke or fan the embers, but let this die completely. It is not good for the forum. I found that out the hard way.

I think your post, although may come from genuine belief, may do more harm than good, just as my forcefulness, lack of sensitivity, and brash comments were. Although my posts were misinterpreted, they were presented in the wrong way and came across the wrong way.

What that showed me was I needed to be willing to change in all of the above to give and get the best from this forum. I intend to continue to do that as long as I am able participate here.

So, I will echo what Voyager said to me, and that is, let's be friends, okay, Janice.

I no judgment against you.

Best,
Pal

[Janice]

Janice, thank you for your response.

Do you truly mean you don't believe ANY word of it, i.e., the general story, or do you sense a lack of genuine regret or remorse?

Maybe you can awaken me to another blind spot. I'm recovering like anyone else, and certainly stand open to any rebuke or correction anyone thinks I need. I also need to be careful not to let what MAY BE a surface judgment cause me to shame myself in what I believe was an honest attempt to openly admit where I have failed.

I think as others have posted that it is certainly best at this time to move on past this, and try our best to establish a fresh start. I have erred, I realze that, and although my time is limited until Friday, unless something changes, I think it best that we follow the good advice of others not to stoke or fan the embers, but let this die completely. It is not good for the forum. I found that out the hard way.
I think your post, although may come from genuine belief, may do more harm than
, just as my forcefulness, lack of sensitivity, and brash comments were. Although my posts were misinterpreted, they were presented in the wrong way and came across the wrong way.

What that showed me was I needed to be willing to change in all of the above to give and get the best from this forum. I intend to continue to do that as long as I am able participate here.

So, I will echo what Voyager said to me, and that is, let's be friends, okay, Janice.

I no judgment against you.

Best,
Pal


Excuse me but, was my post addressed to you :confused: