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gracefull
06-25-2008, 04:02 PM
Please pray! A few of you know some of what this vile woman has done.

My pastor and an elder are meeting tonight to call this wicked woman into account.

This is a woman that makes Hitler look like a boyscout. She has no heart and no soul. She is the embodiment of evil.


Pray that somehow God heaps on conviction on her so heavily that she will not be able to escape it, or that God will pour on the same hateful judgment that she so readily does to others.

Pray that my pastor will go very hard on her and throw the book at her...jsut as she has done to others. Pray that for once in her life she will actually FULLY and COMPLETELY feel the effects of what she has done to others, and that she will never ever be able to escape it.

I have waited over 40 years for someone to challenge this wicked vile person.

Spiny Norman
06-25-2008, 04:05 PM
Perhaps also pray that she will repent...

JaniceB
06-25-2008, 04:06 PM
I will pray for her and you and your pastor, Gracefull. I had problems like those with my mother. It's painful, isn't it?

JaniceB

butterfly
06-25-2008, 04:30 PM
Gracefull like you and Janice B I also had a bad mother.
God didn"t let her leave this world without her punishment.
The day she died I was set free.:D I "m sorry you have a wicked mother like you do and you had to go thru so much abuse.
butterfly shirley

Gayle
06-26-2008, 10:06 AM
Please pray! A few of you know some of what this vile woman has done.

My pastor and an elder are meeting tonight to call this wicked woman into account.

This is a woman that makes Hitler look like a boyscout. She has no heart and no soul. She is the embodiment of evil.


Pray that somehow God heaps on conviction on her so heavily that she will not be able to escape it, or that God will pour on the same hateful judgment that she so readily does to others.

Pray that my pastor will go very hard on her and throw the book at her...jsut as she has done to others. Pray that for once in her life she will actually FULLY and COMPLETELY feel the effects of what she has done to others, and that she will never ever be able to escape it.

I have waited over 40 years for someone to challenge this wicked vile person.

wow, I have never heard of praying against a person. I wish though that God would shut the abusers' mouths and bind their fists and feet and relieve us all of further suffering. Someday.......;)

I am sorry your mother abused you and others so horribly and that someone or something in her past has hurt or affected her so horribly to create such evil within her. Gayle

ex-shep
06-26-2008, 03:49 PM
My parents were not exactly in touch with reality either. I have moved years beyond in recovery, but I have been your place. Not fun at all. I can relate.

hornblower
06-26-2008, 04:23 PM
I used to step on the cracks of the sidewalk to break my Mothers back when I was a kid..........thats how much I hated my Mom. I found out she was raped when she was 9 years old and she believed it was her fault and that her parents sent her away because she was too much to feed. I payed for my Mothers broken heart dearly. Jesus healed me so much that today I can say with a full heart of love that Id give anything if she was sitting right here in my room so I could kiss her and hug her once again. It took my whole life and it was so hard and many arguments and tears we both suffered. She never understood me and I didnt understand her.

I will always believe that things have happened to make people behave the way they do. My daughter suffers me. When she comes over here I end up treating her like crap. Id kill myself if it would do any good just so I wouldnt do anything to hurt my precious lovely girl but I am what I am and she is what she is and we are the way we are. I ask her to forgive me over and over again. Jesus too.


Im sorry I will never pray for someone to get told off by any pastor. I do hope she will come to the light of God and be healed and you too my dearest friend. I understand how you feel and I also still feel so much hatred for the people that have done harm to me so I do understand.

Now days I just try to stay alone as much as possible so I wont hurt anyone any more. I dont ever want to be like my abusers.

Anna Marta
06-27-2008, 02:19 AM
Please pray!
I have waited over 40 years for someone to challenge this wicked vile person.

I bet you have! Let us know what happens...

Jezreel
06-30-2008, 11:11 AM
I TOTALLY UNDERSTAND WHAT YOU HAVE BEEN GOING THROUGH! HERE IS A WONDERFUL LINK ABOUT NARCISSTIC MOTHERS WHO ARE ABUSIVE AND ALL THEIR CHARACTERISTICS! There are other wonderful things there too.

http://www.geocities.com/zpg1957/narcissists.htm

Jezreel
06-30-2008, 01:32 PM
If she goes to church, it is scriptural for the pastor and others to make her accountable. We had bad trouble with my husband's mother, my mother in law. She was a horrible gossip and talebearer, was very negative and critical, especially of me. She attended church and did get corrected every so often for her sin. She would repent and do good for a while but then fall back into the same old routine. Because she was a bitter unforgiving woman, she was handed over to the tormentors until she paid all that was due her. Her health deteriorated and her body was all twisted up and stiff, just like the twisted facts that became lies she would invent. In the end, she had no family and nobody come to see her. She was all alone. So, even if they are not corrected, they still pay and reap what they sow. When she was mean to me, I would order and send her flowers, (bless and love your enemies). I did it unto the Lord and even though it didn't change her in the least, it really helped me because God honored and he loves faith and obedience. (I wish I could be totally obedient! I don't consider myself that great of the child of God but I wish I were) The word says that a man will leave his mother and father and cleave unto his wife. I didn't even have to discourage my husband from going and seeing her because of all the hurt and evil she said about me. God influenced his heart and he stayed away from her. I even prayed her out of state and that happened! If a person is not going to change and they continue to niggle and harass and hurt you, I just pray that God moves them away and he has been so faithful in answering prayer! Anyhow, luckily, her daughter, my husband's sister, told me that in the end, she got right with the Lord.

hornblower
06-30-2008, 07:07 PM
Thats such a shame about your mil. You know though what I wish is that there could be help for women like this. I wish there could be a way to get to the bottom of what is wrong with them somehow. I adopred my mother in law when I married my husband and then I found out who she really was and that she secretly hated me. Everyone knew but me, I thought she would be the mother I never had what a joke on me that was.
Its a long story but I also found such peace with this dearest lady and now I miss her so much. In the end she called me her only real daughter and she tried to give me everything she owned which was nothing at all. The rest of the family then hated me because she began to love me and it was all because, as you say it was, Jesus. He can make a way when there is none.

I guess I ought to remember that when I am chewing on what my sister is now doing to me and the rest of my family.
Its so beyond awful.
You know you get this persecution over and over again and even though I know what to do because I used to always do it, love when they hated me.........now Im so bent and hurt I cant seem to do anything but cry any more. I feel so old and worn out. I want to go and work again the way I used to do in the churches and help people but I feel so worn out and sick. If anyone reads this please pray for me. Im scared of helping people or loving anyone any more.