Awareness

[psalm55]

Any one of your abusers could be masking him or herself on this website. Is there another means or way to help and heal one another?

As part of what went on with me, the girl who was having sex with my husband used other people's email to write to me, posing as a friend.

Very hurtful, very dangerous.

God will have His day in court won't He.

[mary]

What you're addressing, Psalm55, is one thing I was quite afraid of when I first joined this forum. I'd stupidly told someone I was participating here, not knowing that she was feeding this right back to "pastor" and others, and I was kind of wondering who all was trolling this forum. I still wonder about that. The only thing that keeps me from worrying about it is that everything I've put on here is the truth, and I haven't identified anyone.

What happened to you, the e-mailing of you under a disguise, is the epitome of evil. :mad: :mad: :mad: I'm so sorry this has happened... It's absolutely despicable.

Yes, God WILL have His day. It will be the day that these people have dreaded most, for deep in their seared consciences, they know that it's coming. God is too holy and too just to allow these things simply to "pass." It'll be far more horrible, too, than anything they can imagine right now. That's why I was sayiing on another thread that I used to pray for "pastor," for I know what awaits him if he doesn't repent (but now I feel more led to just let others pray for him) - and I didn't want that, not even for "pastor."

May God bless you richly, Psalm 55, and give you grace and the peace that passes understanding abundantly!

mary

[Willow]

It's one of the downfalls of having an open forum about a sensitive topic. I have often wished for a protected forum... but then again... we have to learn how to function in the world of internet and email safely. Nothing is completely secure online.

[Jerry]

Any one of your abusers could be masking him or herself on this website. Is there another means or way to help and heal one another?

As part of what went on with me, the girl who was having sex with my husband used other people's email to write to me, posing as a friend.

Very hurtful, very dangerous.

God will have His day in court won't He.


Dear Psalm55,,,
Security that works fairly well is easy ,,,,follow the rules ;)
1.Never sign a post with your real name.......I break this rule cuz I don't give a rats ass :D not cuz I am smart :D
2.Never tell anyone around you your screen name on this site....
3.Change your password more often
4.Always "Log out" when you leave this site,,,,Of course this requires "Logging In" each visit,but it also prevents other users of your computer access to your screen name......
5.If you feel that your security on site has been compromised,we have an easy fix ;) Just let me know by "PM".I can in effect "Ban" your user name and password,then you can Re-register with a whole new profile.Then the only one who knows your real identity,is Me :D the resident lunatic :eek: (Moderator ;) )
Love Jerry

[psalm55]

well, there are more bizarre twists to the story that i am not willing to discuss. been called too many names and had action taken against me by people i thought I knew so, I just dont' talk about it anymore. but basically i dont' feel emotionally safe anywhere. and the guy in charge knows it, refused me when i went to him and left me dealing with the consequences of action he took against me.

turning the key soon, and i hope the nightmare will be over then.

[hornblower]

well Im very lucky nobody gives a flip about me anyway...........lol. If they did ever come here I could care less anyway as in real life this is rthe way Ive always been. I am who I am who I am and if it gets me killed so be it.

But then I might feel totally different about all of this if anyone cared about me anyway in those churches...........they dont.

Its cool because I dont care about them either.

I ask God to forgive me for that.

I always loved this story that God brought to my attentio early in my walk with Him. I had a friend in high school and she got pregnant our senior year. Back then this was really big talkey stuff you know gossip was everything back then.

I NEVER heard one single person say one thing about her..........you know why? She was so happy that she was pregnant she went around telling everybody that she had to get married and that she was pregnant by the love of her life........her boyfriend!

So.........I kind of see myself that way.

Im pregnant with Jesus..........He is inside of me and I dearly love Him more than anyone or anything else in this world...........what do I have to be ashamed of? He has forgiven me of everything I ever did..............this IS my and His marriage with each other.............ok it hasnt happened in totality yet but it will and soon.................so Im not hiding anything at all ever!.............like Mary.........Im proud that He picked me so to speak!

[psalm55]

I don't mean any disrespect hornblower, but you might feel differently if a member of your family called and knowing the consequences told you to do something that would have gotten you killed had you followed their advice

You might also feel differently if your husband and his girlfriend donated zygotes and that your friends and family gave birth to in order to deceive you so he could eventually divorce you.

And you might feel differently if your husbands girlfriend's mother was sending you anonymous sex emails and everyone at the church knew and were privy to the letters.

[broken_hearted_sheep]

well, there are more bizarre twists to the story that i am not willing to discuss. been called too many names and had action taken against me by people i thought I knew so, I just dont' talk about it anymore. but basically i dont' feel emotionally safe anywhere. and the guy in charge knows it, refused me when i went to him and left me dealing with the consequences of action he took against me.

turning the key soon, and i hope the nightmare will be over then.

I'm so sorry:(:(:( you have endured such a nightmarish situation. I will pray for you and remember, He is the Lord of Hosts. He is not going to sit down forever. He promises to suddenly overtake those. Remember Haman? :mad: Just wait, those "gallows" these people are making for you, may just end up for them.

Be encouraged and know He loves you.

Psalm 56 helps me.

((((((Take Care)))))))
BH Sheep

[psalm55]

I'm aware he thinks it is too much to be faithful to me but I wish it wasn't too much to think he would email an apology. Typed with his own hand in his own name.

It is very difficult to trust and has been for a long time now. For years I tried to go along with what I thought was going on. I've given up on trying anymore. It got me nowhere and only served to reveal the deception. I don't mind helping people but I don't like being decieved into doing so.