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mizsandy
01-31-2008, 01:46 PM
Hello,
I have been on another forum because i was in a spiritually abusive church. I had a nervous and physical breakdown and was comitted to a mental health facility because i was attempting suicide. God stayed my hand on that and i am thankful for that! That was in Oct of 2004 and yes God has been healing me and my family. It has been a lesson that He has taught me to be discerning. When I Read The Subtle Power of Spiritual Abuse, i thought they were talking about the church we attended. Classic case and what grieves me is that there are people still there. A friend of mine let me read the book and it has been a blessing and also healing for me. I was and i still attend biblical counseling at the new church i attend. The church i attend is allowing me to rest and does not place bondage on you. Our pastor is truly a shepherd who is transparent with accountibility. if you say no you can't do a certain thing, it's alright. No pressure on me. I was in leadership at the last church and i started seeing things that were not write. It was then that i was introduced to recovery from spiritual abuse. It has been a life line for me these past three and a half years! Thank you so much.

jeanie aka mizsandy

PatriciaM
01-31-2008, 04:08 PM
Welcome MizSandy! We're glad you're here too! As you share your experiences as well as your healing process, many people will learn from your story.

Again, welcome!

mizsandy
01-31-2008, 05:28 PM
Wow! You have no idea how welcome i feel here on this forum. I do have a story to share but i have been reading other threads and i have been blessed. Thank you so much!!!!:):D

Willow
01-31-2008, 06:45 PM
Glad you found your way over here Jeanie. Big WELCOME to you!

Amy

mary
01-31-2008, 08:09 PM
Welcome, Jeanie! We're happy to have you here, but sorry about the circumstances that led you to us.

Share as you feel comfortable (somebody here keeps a coffee pot brewing! - :) )... Feel free to participate whenever you'd like.

I understand how you feel... I've been "on the unit" for anxiety and depression myself and almost wound up back there due to the spiritual abuse that I went through.

Glad you've found a church with a good pastor! That's a very good way to heal!

Once again, welcome!

mary

FreeinJesus
01-31-2008, 08:11 PM
Dear Jeanie!! WELCOME to the forum!!

I too am so thankful for these forums & the internet & the people who take the time to set up & run the forums. What a blessing to hurting people.

I am so glad for you that you are healing. I know while I was contemplating leaving that abusive "organization" I was having panic attacks & PTSD. I would lay awake all night & I would sometimes shake because I knew that I didn't believe what was being "preached" anymore from the abusive "bully pulpit"....but I had been in it for so long...then there was the issue of making God angry at me if I walked away. Finally, I just couldn't take it anymore. I could not in good conscience continue to support that suppposed "ministry" under that religious dictator. I call him that because that man had NO checks & balances on his power over the flock. No presbytery, No board of elders, No denominational committees....basically he ran the show & God help the people who disagree w/ the baptist pope.:(

OH well.....I can say that I am so much better...not that I don't have bad days, but the bad days are less & the good days are more.:) I THANK GOD for getting us out!
MEN are cruel & God is not. Perfect love casts out fear & my xabusive preacher used lots of fear to manipulate.

I know I've gone on....can you tell I feel strongly about this??:o God guide you on your journey & it's good to have you here!!
FreeinJesus

amandaF
02-01-2008, 01:08 AM
Share more when you're ready! :)