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Pat-Yvette
06-07-2007, 03:37 PM
Y been reading mora abaout spiritually abuse, how some leaders control the situation, Y understand it, please Y would like you friends for these forum pray for me, Y know that Y have to make a decicion, Is not easy, especially Y dont know how to do it, Y dont want talk with her, Y know that she is gone say manithings that are gone offende me, and scary me, Y come from abuse home, Y had tu run away, because every time that Y try to tell my husband abaout the situation, he just promise that he is gone change, and when Y talk more seriously abaout the abuse, he thought that Y am tring to negociate the problems, si use a lot of his wrong behavior, and always we end together again, so, thats wy Y had to run away, Y think thats exactly Y have to do know, please dont missunderstood me, Y dont want to keep runing away, but Y know these personalities, and Y think that Y am still vunerable, Y think that Y am gone wriete a letter to these lady, butttttttttt, Y know that she is gone call me, well Y dont know why Y am making sucha a big deal, abuse is abuse it deoesnt matter, if is from husbands, friends, or churchs, if Y had to stop any comunication with my husband en the past, even to answer the phone or to see him for sake, is the same thing that Y have to do with these lady, if Y call she is gone think that Y am tring to negocciate, she is gone pretend, but Y know the first oportunnity she is gone explited again, please help me to pray, Y need to fell that Y am not alone, in reality she is part of my past, the wrong decicions that Y made in the past, but know that Y had such a comunication with her Y found out her behavior, okey Y have to go. bye

Willow
06-07-2007, 06:00 PM
OK Pat,

I want to caution you to make decisions as emotionally detached as you can. It's very upsetting to confront a controlling and dominant person. Is there a way you can keep her from coming to your meetings? Perhaps that's all you need to do? I don't know the situation... I'm just trying to keep you from a bad confrontation if you don't have to. Is there a person over her you can talk to about her behavior?

Try not to act quickly out of your feelings... K?