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abbey
11-30-2006, 04:06 AM
Tonight I was reading thru my first posts to this forum and was amazed at what I saw. I was a scared, lonely and confused lady reaching out to total strangers and they reached back willingly and lovingly. I saw how the kind and carefully chosen words were convincing me of and leading me out of a very dangerous cult. My family didnt understand, and I didnt understand ,but you all did!

The first few days away from the cult were the hardest. Almost a feeling of being in the twilight zone, yet members here walked me thru this difficult time with cyber coffee and open ears. Reassuring me that "all will be well." Not only were you patiently listening to my confusion, but you were all so careful and wise in your responses. Treating me like a wounded bird whose wings needed a mend and feeding me milk from an eye dropper. Much like I would imagine Christ himself treating the wounded.

As I continued to re-read everything, I realized that I have come so far. (not that I dont realize how long this road is) You folks rescued me from a burning building; one setting the ladder, another climbing, other members stretching out the rescue blanket, etc. And all collectively shouting "JUMP, Youre safe, We got ya!"

If it wasnt for you guys, and of course Gods concern, I still be in that weirdo, freakshow, crazy MPD cult. So as corny as it is, I just wanted to shout a BIG THANKS to all you wonderful people! You were there, as I typed nervously in a San Diego Library, 3000 miles from home, reaching out and you reached back!

Peace Abbey

Jerry
11-30-2006, 05:16 AM
(((((((((Abbey))))))))) ;)

exwitchoz
11-30-2006, 05:47 AM
(((HUGS))) and Peace to you Abbey... :)

yeshua'smags
11-30-2006, 06:05 AM
Bless your heart! I'm so relieved for you ((((hugs)))!;)

SpinningHead
11-30-2006, 07:45 AM
I'm all choked up!! :o

(((((Abbey))))))

That's just so great for you. I'm so happy for you! You sound like you're in a much better place.

Bless you. <<Still choked up>>

Anna Marta
11-30-2006, 11:58 AM
((((((((((((((((((((((((ABBEY))))))))))))))))))))) )))

Love is patient, love is kind, it never gives up... ahhhhh:)

Shalom and hugs

Anna Marta

Willow
11-30-2006, 12:09 PM
thanks for checking in. I'm happy for you!

jimsmuse
11-30-2006, 12:51 PM
THANK YOU ABBEY!

....that He let's us be "Jesus with skin on to each other"!! is amazing!

love you Abbey!

Patty
11-30-2006, 02:17 PM
Its funny, right before I read your post, I was going through some things in my closet when I came across my "journal" I kept when I was in my old church. I could barely believe that I wrote and thought and believed the things in this journal. I am tempted to burn it. I am shocked at how steeped I was in this group and their mind control. This was only 5 years ago, and sadly to say the second SA church we had fallen into.

Like you, I am amazed at what an all consuming effect this had on my life, how long the journey out is and how far I have come.

Thank you for your beautiful post.

butterfly
11-30-2006, 02:18 PM
:D :D [[Abby]]:D :D

Thanks for the update Abby I feel God is amoung us here on this forum.:D

He sends His injured birds to this refuge.:D butterfly shirley

abbey
12-01-2006, 08:10 AM
Hugs all back at cha!

A little note on how I found the forum: My cult friend gave me a book to read on warfare. In the back of the book was the websites addy ---I ran to the library and type in SA. Its been better ever since, cause i couldnt LABEL it! Now i knew i was abused!

Patty, I dont think Ill be re-reading anymore posts ---its not of a help right now. Once again when you spoke of your SA, I immediately got triggered by "groups"---Im going to a new church and Im scared of the whole fellowship/are you going to teach the wrong thing kinda stuff. But we need fellowship, leaders....were not islands or theologins....

Its weird how this all unfolds....the feelings. Im pissed off at that group....gosh, they added heaps of pressure on my back.....like Pharisees

I have the net at home now, so I may pop in more frequently. God Bless yas!

Carmen
12-02-2006, 03:33 AM
Hi Abbey,

You do sound different, much better I think. :)