I have had enough of This Man and his abuse...

[honeybee]

Damit,I call my ex to discuse the pregnancy and finacial support....Well he is nice until I tell him that "WE should have been more responsible" He flips out hangs up so I call him back and he has the nerve to tell me that I have a evil and minipulative,decit heart and thats what is going to come out from it WTF? He blamed it on me had the nerve to tell me that God would tell him what to do when the baby comes,and his mom told me she could not be involved unless the Lord talked to her.....She told me to pray in the spirit......But back to the man that claims hes anonnited how does a man that claims to love Jesus have the nerve to be soooo mean...Telling me how I am unequaly yoked for him I dont even want him...What was a guy that is so close to the Lord doing getting involved with a girl that was not at the time walking with the Lord and having sex with her oh I am at loss for words......Kind words appresiated Thank You

[Jerry]

He blamed it on me had the nerve to tell me that God would tell him what to do when the baby comes

Dear Honeybee,,,,
No,,,,,,I have a feeling that some "Judge" is gonna tell this guy what to do when the baby comes :D ......................A word to the wise here,,,,,,,watch out for that guys mama !!!.......Don't forget,she probably taught him all he thinks he knows :eek: They both sound so "Heavenly" that they are no "Earthly" good ;)
Love Jerry

[yeshua'smags]

GOOD GIRL!! Now RUN! RUN AWAY from him!!! AND HIS MOTHER! Maybe she's not "hearing from God" because He doesn't want her to have anything to do with this baby! You don't need them!

Just don't make any decisions until the baby gets here. Once you have that baby, you are going to feel a love you've never felt in your life. It will consume you and you're going to think it might make your chest explode. And you will feel this overwhelming protectiveness that is like nothing you've ever experienced. ;)

Just hang on...it's about to get really good!;) :D

[Scooter]

What's interesting is that many people say they'll wait to hear from God, but they're only listening for what they want to hear.

[hornblower]

Good Lord what is this world coming too????????? I guess the world!!!!!!!!! Pharissees all of them, no good louses if you ask me. If he slept with you he committed adultery if he isnt married to you, sorry but you did too,Im sure you realise that because you said to him that you both were not being responsibel and thats is exactly right!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!.............not saying that I didnt when I wasnt walking with God, weve all done the wrong things but PLEASE somebody live up to the honesty of saying it! Now that I am walking with God trying to do the right thing.........duh.........I SHOULD know better!

Who knows what goes through peoples minds when they say and do such silly rediculous things as this man is now saying to you and his mother for goodness sakes..............thank goodness I am not in this situation myself as a mother of a son that is so dumb!!!!!!!! Im not telling you what I would do with him, it cant be said here!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Believe me my son knows it too!

I hope honeybee that you dont think that real christians act in these ways and that some day you can understand and know the difference between real people of God and the nonuts.
Just my 2 cents and im angry right now please I hope no one takes offence.

[hornblower]

What's interesting is that many people say they'll wait to hear from God, but they're only listening for what they want to hear.
so true scooter!

[hornblower]

GOOD GIRL!! Now RUN! RUN AWAY from him!!! AND HIS MOTHER! Maybe she's not "hearing from God" because He doesn't want her to have anything to do with this baby! You don't need them!

Just don't make any decisions until the baby gets here. Once you have that baby, you are going to feel a love you've never felt in your life. It will consume you and you're going to think it might make your chest explode. And you will feel this overwhelming protectiveness that is like nothing you've ever experienced. ;)

Just hang on...it's about to get really good!;) :D

Now this I can attest to with my whole heart and all of my being!!!!!!!!!!!!! I mean it my friend.............this is the true love of God the love of a mother for her child.

[jane]

WOW.

I think I missed your entrance onto our forum, it must have been when my computer was down....or maybe my mind is just too forgetful.


I hope your pregnancy is going well.

Sounds to me like this man might have some mental illness....that praying in tongues thing and then choking you.......and blaming YOU for being a whore!


I can't even tell you how ticked I get when I meet men that think that way.


I would stay FAR away from his mother and him.


I knew a woman once who had a inlaw and ex that were JW.....she kept them in her life at a distance for her child to "know" his family and for a little support.


The kid grew up to hate her; view her as Satan; and is studying to be some leader in the JW group....

irony? This same JW father molested him as an infant; he had semen in his throat...and

THEY ARE ALL THE GOOD GUYS and she has NO relationship with her son....


JUST MY OPINION but you don't want ANY of those lies forming your child's precious innocent mind.

What you are dealing with is not only NOT christianity; it is INSANITY!

jane

[honeybee]

Thank You all for being so supportive.....I would have never thought,that a christain would do this,but I guess it happens to alot people,These monsters thank they have power over us,beacuse they think they are annontied by God,I could never picture Jesus treating people with disrespect so where do these people get off on doing stuff to us.......I am a great or WAS a good target,I had no self esteem,really nice,I was the type to say sorry even if it was there falt.....
My probblem now is I thought that I wanted him involved with his child but I dont I dont even want his money,all my pushing I did to try and get him involved,has made it harder for me to get out of I dont want my child getting brainwashed,or taken from me beacuse God told him to do it......He told me once that God would help his annontied with getting his child if he wanted it...To think I loved him and for him to talk down to me like he does,I am dammed if I do Dammed if I dont with him,he even said "I know the more I am mean to you the more you will want me" Um no its more like you made me think even less of you saying that BS...

[yeshua'smags]

Tell you what, I'm going to adopt you and you can come live with me and let me take care of you!! I'll take care of you and the baby and I'll handle "Norman" and his freakin mother! ;) :p ("Psycho" reference!:D )

I just feel so sorry for you, I don't know what to do! You are in such a precious state, please take our advice and just get away from him!!

[butterfly]

Honeybee,
I think you want your baby to know its father and the father to have some quilaty time with its dad. Is this why you want this man in your babys life??


Well if this is what you are looking for please think of this.

Your going to have to deal with this man till your child is 18 or older.

If you get married someday this man will be interfearing in your marriage. When he comes to pick your child up. Just think what trouble he could cause.


What abuse will your child go thru with him and his mother??

What crazy church abuse will your child go thru??

When he takes your child will he bring the child back to you or keep the child.

The way you talk about this man your child will be in danger everYtime it goes with him.

The baby is yours a gift from God no matter how it was concived.

You and your baby are very important.

butterfly shirley