wow there is a lot going on here

[jane]

and I feel so out of touch....forgive me if I don't jump into every thread, I don't seem to understand a lot of what is being talked about and I think it is simply because I missed some time....and I honestly seem to not be able to read through everything to catch up.



What I do know is that sometimes when people start fighting here, or not just letting people be themselves it is often because of something within that person and not the person being attacked.

and no this is not meant towards anyone in particular.


I just know that for myself there were times here when I was triggered and would love how it felt to yell back and holler.....

as if all those years in my church where I was "submissive to authority" and "obedient" even to the point of emotional abuse were coming out in my yelling.

So I guess that I am trying to say is that if someone is triggered, look inside your heart and find out why. The trigger is often a key to unlock something that can help you heal.........


Jane

[yeshua'smags]

You are totally right Jane! That is exactly how I feel, even though I know it's just causing trouble, I yell anyway.:o

Though yelling in defense of someone is different, I think. Some of the things that have been said to people aren't necessary, and they need to be backed up. :)

Everything else I just need to learn to let roll off my back.:o ;)

[jane]

keep on yelling.... how's that song go? am I dating myself?


SHOUT SHOUT LET IT ALL OUT !


I too agree that people should shut up if they are hurting people:D

i've done a couple of those posts in my day:o


Does anyone know if Kerrin is still around?

[yeshua'smags]

Hey!! Good song! Usually when people refer to a song and they say they are dating themselves, it's something that is older than me and my genre. It's a little nausiating that a "Tears For Fears" reference is dating yourself!:D :( :D

When am I gonna lose my Peter Pan complex?:D :D :D :D :p :D :D :D

[newlife]

Does anyone know if Kerrin is still around?

Kerrin hasn't been on for awhile...I am concerned for her. She was having some severe health problems with her Crohn's and spent some time in the hospital with it. It's probably been a month and a half since she posted and she said that she was still really sick. That's all I know.

[jane]

newlife-
thanks for responding about kerrin.

if you hear anything more, let me know.

[jane]

yeshua smags.

hey what does that name mean?

dont' loose the peter pan thing- too many people pay lots of money to shrinks in order to remember how to be a child again.

would you believe that my son listens to my old music? He is 18 and all of a sudden pink floyd and all those bands are cool again....go figure. According to him and his friends, no one knows how to make music like that anymore....
guess we agree on somethings :)

[Willow]

[COLOR="RoyalBlue"][B]Hey!! Good song! Usually when people refer to a song and they say they are dating themselves, ...

Don't worry Jane and mags... I date myself too! No one else will date me! HAHAHA

[yeshua'smags]

Yeshua is Hebrew for Joshua, which was Jesus' real name.
People who are close to me call me Mags- short for Maggie (duh, like you didn't know:D )

I figured there's no one closer to me than Him, and I belong to Him....so I'm Yeshua's Mags.;) :D

[butterfly]

Kerrin has been sick like Newlife
said. She was in the hospital about 3weeks came home had a relapse and went back to the hospital.

She had here phone shut off and can"t use her computer. She did go to the libary and used theres a couple times.

I recived a card from her and she was going to start work that week. That was about a mo. ago.

Donna DDL or DLL has taken a break and comes here to say hello sometimes. She went to therphy and was doing much better.

Hope98 hasn"t been on for awhile.Things were getting better for her at the time.

Blake the actor from England still is on tour and popedin a mo.ago I think it was.
He is doing ok.

Oh ya Jane took off and we didn"t know where she went!!

Good News She came back.
I can"t think of others right now.
So you are you on them.
shirley

[Janice]

Don't worry Jane and mags... I date myself too! No one else will date me! HAHAHA


Ha! You are too funy!

hey, I'll ask you out...

Who care about "dinner & a movie"?

Wanna go to that biker bar you talked about? :D

[Willow]

Ha! You are too funy!

hey, I'll ask you out...

Who care about "dinner & a movie"?

Wanna go to that biker bar you talked about? :D

OK!!! It's a date!!!!

[Janice]

keep on yelling.... how's that song go? am I dating myself?


SHOUT SHOUT LET IT ALL OUT !


I too agree that people should shut up if they are hurting people:D

i've done a couple of those posts in my day:o


Does anyone know if Kerrin is still around?


Ha! You almost made me spit out my coffee! :D

[jane]

Butterfly-

thanks for the update, I didn't mean to disappear. My husband said the computer would only be turned off for the weekend....:rolleyes:

you know how those promises are.


we'll I am back now........

jane

[Reg]

Good to see you back Jane. This place isn't quite the same without you. :)